Happy Fathers Day

Alan Smyth —  June 20, 2016 — 8 Comments

Happy Father’s Day to all of you GREAT dad’s. How do I know you are a great dad? If you are reading this, you are engaged and interested in doing the best you can. That is a great dad! It’s not about the finished product, it’s about the trajectory you are on. I am proud of those Dad’s who follow this blog. I often get messages from many of you sharing highlights, pictures and stories from your journey.

This blog post is a simple shout of encouragement and affirmation to the hard work you are putting in regarding your role as Dad! This past Sunday was Father’s Day and so I salute you for taking your job seriously. I also want to challenge you to KEEP GOING! Stay after it! Even if things are tough, keep chasing your daughter.

1 Corinthians 15:58 talks of being “steadfast and immovable, always abounding in the work the Lord.”

2 Timothy 4:7 talks of “Fighting the good fight, finishing the race, keeping the faith.”

Do those things… be steadfast and immovable in your parenting patients and effort. Fight the good fight meaning it takes work and there is opposition. Finish the race meaning DON’T QUIT doing the right things. And keep the faith meaning know that God is working in and through you and your daughter even if you can’t always tell.

As you may or may not know, my kids are pretty grown. Trevor is 23 and Brittany just turned 28. I was really blessed this weekend to get wonderful Father’s Day wishes from them. I thought I would pass them along to you as an example of what your kids might be saying to you after they have grown through adolescence. For many, things are so turbulent (or will become so) that you can’t envision the other side. I don’t share these to say “look at ME” I share them to say “Look at YOU” and see the potential and victory that lies ahead. Be encouraged and press on!

Stay at it and God will bless….

Facebook message from Trevor that I got Saturday night…

Trevor fathers day post

What Brittany wrote on her card to me

Brittany fathers day card

 

Be steadfast!

Alan Smyth

 

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I have been married to Sharon for 33 years. We have two kids, Brittany (29) and Trevor (25) I am the Senior Vice President for Saving Innocence. I have a passion for my family and have learned a few things along the way.

8 responses to Happy Fathers Day

  1. Derrick parsons June 17, 2013 at 7:07 pm

    I would like to know how I can get one of those t-shirts with the rules on dating my
    Daughter . I seen it on my Facebook page
    I would like to order one,and thanks again
    Sincerely , Derrick P.

  2. I am interested in purchasing the rules for dating my daughter shirt. Are those available for purchase?

    Thanks

  3. Kandis Georget June 17, 2013 at 8:31 pm

    I would like one of those shirts but what sizes do you have? I would need it in a 3xl…. I also live in Canada…. Is that ok? Thanks:)

  4. the link to purchase the t-shirts isn’t working. when will it be fixed?

  5. Daughters are people, not possessions. I don’t possess my daughter; I am teaching her to be a strong, independent woman who can control her own life.

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