As men, we have lots of jobs. Hopefully we are employed and strive to do a good job at work. Providing for our family is a big job! Creating a happy, healthy home for our kids to exist and grow up in is an important job. The list could go on.
Recently I ran across this little blurb. I posted it on our “MyFatherDaughter.com” facebook page because I thought the message was powerful. (btw- have you “liked” our Facebook, Instagram & Twitter yet?) It’s a place where we post lots of pictures, this blog and other fun things.
This picture makes a very simple, yet profound statement that I couldn’t agree with more. This blog usually focusses on our roles with our daughters. But, let’s not forget that our sons are also growing up in a brutal culture as well. They are the target of an endless assault on authentic masculinity. They are given a daily dose of false manhood and asked to comply with shallow standards of selfishness.
Popular, filthy and degrading song lyrics are offering training to our boys for how they should think about and act upon our daughters. The constant messaging is confusing for our kids. They are inundated with mixed messages of sexuality and poor images of what a healthy man is.
The picture above states perfectly what our job #1 is. And it is twofold.
1. Teach your son what a real man is.
2. Teach your daughter to accept nothing less.
You might have guessed it. All of this starts with YOU.
Some questions for you to consider:
What kind of man are you? Where do you get your marching orders? Who do you emulate? What can your son or daughter learn from you regarding how you treat women? What kind of work ethic do they see in you? Do they learn selfishness from you? Do they see you bow to a higher power and a bigger picture?
Be the kind of man that you want your son to grow into and your daughter to marry!
(Hint: that is already happening, like it or not) Our book “Prized Possession” is full of resources to help you on this journey.